Archive | December, 2009

Smile! Real, Fake, People Can’t Really Tell

December 29, 2009

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As a communication coach, to smile is one piece of advice for improving people skills I can never give enough of. At the same time, once in a while, some people express concerns about it not being real and appearing fake. Although I’m a big believer in authenticity, I think when it comes to smiling, [...]

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Change Your Life Today, Now, Forever

December 21, 2009

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Apparently, these or some of the expressions which are searched on the Internet quite a lot: “Change your life today”, “Change your life now”, “Change your life forever”. A bunch load of people are not living the lives they want to live, and they’re looking for ways to change that. And I think that’s great. [...]

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The Key to Become Charismatic and What Is CBT

December 15, 2009

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I’m happy to announce that today, not one, but two of my guest articles have been posted: one is “The key to become charismatic” and it’s on Change Your Thoughts, the personal development blog of Steven Aitchison. You can read it here. The other is “What is CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy)?” and it’s on A [...]

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How to Avoid the Holiday Madness and Enjoy Yourself

December 8, 2009

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One big clue that we live in a strange world is for me the fact we even have expressions like “holiday madness” and articles like this one. What in the world is that? Aren’t holidays about rest, relaxation, fun? Have I missed some important lesson in school? Left and right, I hear people talking about [...]

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Personal Development Ideas I Can Do Without

December 2, 2009

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I am going to hit the next person who gives one of the following ideas as personal development advice (this is bad, considering I’m an otherwise peaceful person): Just be more confident; Just be yourself; Just be more positive; Just be calmer. Just, just, just. It just doesn’t work that way! There is a tone [...]

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