I believe that if you’re lacking in the social skills department, then knowing how to build social skills is crucial. It’s crucial because your social skills play the key role in building a social life, and your social life plays the key role in being happy. Over the years I’ve met people who did some [...]
How to Better Yourself
I often say that the best way to better your life is to better yourself. With improved knowledge, skills, habits and attitudes, you can visibly enhance how you live and how happy you are (not necessarily in that order). To do this, it’s key to have a good understanding of how to better yourself as [...]
How to Stop Being Self-Conscious
Are you frequently self-conscious when around other people? Does your attention automatically go to your body, clothes, behavior or overall person, and you feel somewhat awkward or insecure? Well, you can learn how to stop being self-conscious and put an end to all of this. As a social confidence coach, I work with people who [...]
Are You Wasting Precious Time?
I often say that the most valuable resource we have in life is time. Time is the only resource that cannot get replenished. You can perhaps extend it a bit by living healthy, but beyond that what you get is what you get, and your responsibility is to use it wisely. So if there is [...]
How to Play Hard To Get
In the realm of courtship, knowing how to play hard to get matters. A lot. I’ve heard many people tell me that when they have to work in order to get the attention or sexual availability of a member of the opposite sex, they enjoy it considerably more when they get it. Like or not, [...]
What to Say to a Girl You Like
Social confidence newsletter reader Mark asks: “I would really love to know what to say to a girl I like. There is this cute girl at work who often drops by my department with various tasks. She always smiles at me and I’d very much like to talk to her, but I don’t know what [...]
“Why Do People Stare At Me?” A Qualified Answer
I got an interesting question a few days ago from a reader of the social confidence newsletter. He noticed that very frequently, in buses, on the street, in the supermarket, while waiting in line, people look intently at him. So he asked me: “Why do people stare at me?” It’s not that “Dang! You’re hot!” [...]
Good Comebacks When Someone Makes Fun of You
I write a social confidence newsletter which currently has over 10.000 subscribers. One frequent question I get from subscribers is: “What are some good comebacks to use when someone makes fun of you?” This question reminds me of my days in middle school and part of high school when me and my peers used to [...]
Shy Guys: Their Psychology and Their Recovery
Note: I post daily tips on Facebook. Click here to visit my Facebook Page. Most statistics state than shyness is somewhat more common for girls than for guys. Nevertheless, make no mistake about it, there are heaps of shy guys out there, and many of them are in fact extremely inhibited. These guys feel anxious [...]
How to Be Friendly
Note: You can now connect with me on Twitter and Facebook. Please do so. If you study the people who bond the easiest with others and have the richest social lives, it doesn’t take long to realize that much of their social success resides in the fact they are very friendly and gregarious, with both girls and guys. [...]
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