People Skills Decoded

I believe that if you’re lacking in the social skills department, then knowing how to build social skills is crucial. It’s crucial because your social skills play the key role in building a social life, and your social life plays the key role in being happy. Over the years I’ve met people who did some [...]

In the realm of courtship, knowing how to play hard to get matters. A lot. I’ve heard many people tell me that when they have to work in order to get the attention or sexual availability of a member of the opposite sex, they enjoy it considerably more when they get it. Like or not, [...]

Note: I post daily tips on Facebook. Click here to visit my Facebook Page. Most statistics state than shyness is somewhat more common for girls than for guys. Nevertheless, make no mistake about it, there are heaps of shy guys out there, and many of them are in fact extremely inhibited. These guys feel anxious [...]

Note: You can now connect with me on Twitter and Facebook. Please do so. If you study the people who bond the easiest with others and have the richest social lives, it doesn’t take long to realize that much of their social success resides in the fact they are very friendly and gregarious, with both girls and guys. [...]

Are you pondering the possibility that you’re socially inept? Many people are that way, so you’re definitely not alone. Nevertheless, you shouldn’t take consolation in this and not do anything about it. I’ve been working as a social confidence coach since 2007. And I can assure you that, no matter who you are, you can [...]

If you’re shy and interested in finding a job, you may be wondering: What are some good jobs for shy people? The traditional advice concerning jobs for shy people goes something like this: since you are shy, you will feel uncomfortable dealing with people. Therefore, you should pick work where you don’t interact a lot [...]

Many shy and socially anxious people are interested in learning how to be more talkative. Some people seem to naturally be talkative and connect easy with others. They on the other hand struggle with this. The good news is that you don’t have to struggle. Equipped with some savvy advice on how to be more [...]

So, you want to learn how to be witty? I understand you perfectly. The witty person in a social setting is the person who gets all the attention, makes everyone laugh, is liked by everybody and has no problems connecting with others. As a social confidence coach, I work on a regular basis with guys [...]

A conversation is basically an exchange of information on various topics between two or more people. When the content and form of the conversation are appropriate, people connect with each other. Having good things to talk about plays a big role here. When you have good things to talk about with somebody, either a guy [...]

If social interactions don’t go for you as well as you would like and you sometimes tend to put your foot in your mouth during conversations, you may be asking yourself: “Am I socially awkward?” Drawing from my experience as a social confidence coach, I want to explain the characteristics of socially awkward people and [...]