People Skills Decoded

So, you want to learn how to be witty? I understand you perfectly. The witty person in a social setting is the person who gets all the attention, makes everyone laugh, is liked by everybody and has no problems connecting with others. As a social confidence coach, I work on a regular basis with guys [...]

A conversation is basically an exchange of information on various topics between two or more people. When the content and form of the conversation are appropriate, people connect with each other. Having good things to talk about plays a big role here. When you have good things to talk about with somebody, either a guy [...]

If social interactions don’t go for you as well as you would like and you sometimes tend to put your foot in your mouth during conversations, you may be asking yourself: “Am I socially awkward?” Drawing from my experience as a social confidence coach, I want to explain the characteristics of socially awkward people and [...]

If you tend to be shy, quiet or anxious in social situations, learning how to be more social is one of the most important things you can do. Put into application the right know-how on how to be more social and you’ll see outstanding transformations. You’ll find it easier to make friends, get noticed and [...]

Knowing how to be yourself in social interactions is essential for building a rich social life and rewarding relationships with others. And like many other people out there, you may need to learn, or better said, re-learn how to be yourself. Well, I’m gonna guide you on this path towards confident and authentic self-expression. The [...]

Me, I’m an oddball. I follow a healthy eating plan although I’m thin as a rail (which most people find strange), I believe in polyamory, and I often say some of the most retarded stuff you can imagine in conversations. Many of the persons I coach have this belief that they are weird and that [...]

It’s here! Today is the public release of my free video guide, The Secrets to Conversation Confidence. Check it out here. The FREE Video Guide I’ve put in this 30 min. slide video some of the most powerful lessons that I have to share on how to become a confident conversationalist and live life to [...]

In the last few years, I’ve given a lot of thought to the question: What makes one happy? I think there is a lot of variation, as each person is different, but there is at least one common thread. And that thread is good relationships. I think that, on the whole, the people with the [...]

I was recently watching Mark Sisson’s talk about The Lost Art of Play. Mark, who is the author of The Primal Blueprint, takes an interesting viewpoint on playing. He says that play, in any of its forms, entails three key qualities: It’s not directed towards an outcome; It’s in the moment, and; It’s fun. So [...]

Social confidence is the term I use to describe the type of confidence that concerns social situations and dealing with other persons. I think most people have a profound misunderstanding of what it takes to develop social confidence. The problem is that they treat social confidence like any other type of confidence, and they believe [...]