People Skills Decoded

It’s here! Today is the public release of my free video guide, The Secrets to Conversation Confidence. Check it out here. The FREE Video Guide I’ve put in this 30 min. slide video some of the most powerful lessons that I have to share on how to become a confident conversationalist and live life to [...]

Romantic relationships: the epitome of complicated. Once in a while, I like to surf on various personal development forums and read some of the recent threads. I can’t tell you how many threads on these forums are started by people who just broke up or they’re on the verge of breaking up with their partner. [...]

I’m in writing overdrive. But you’re not going to see the content here on the blog, because it’s for an information product I’m currently working on. I can’t tell you anything about it at this point, except that it is a practical, bullshit-free guide to making conversation with confidence. And it’s coming along beautifully. I [...]

If you are a personal development passionate, if you want to make the best out of your life, this is literally a once in a lifetime offer and I’m writing this post to let you know about it as soon as possible. Some of the best and the brightest personal development bloggers out there have [...]

I cannot believe that up until now, I have not written an article here about the way I eat. Yes, this blog is primarily centered on people skills, but healthy eating and living is such a big deal for me that it’s about time you and I have a talk about it. In short: I’m [...]

I don’t believe in good language and bad language. I also don’t believe in good people and bad people. I’m not interested in broad labels and I try not to judge things or people based on them, but on factual results. Personally, I don’t have any problem with words like ‘fuck’, ‘shit’ and so on [...]

If you’re a guy and you want more social and dating success, there are a lot of personal tweaks you can make to achieve this. Interestingly enough, I find that enhancing your look, which is a relatively accessible change to make, is an often ignored one. I’m not talking about your looks here; I’m talking [...]

Many people try to make shyness seem like a cute and innocent trait to have. Nevertheless, if you are shy and you know firsthand how shyness can disrupt your social life, you probably find it hard to view it that way. And if you have more than shyness, if you have social anxiety, the upheaval [...]

Some exciting things have happened this week (and it’s only Tuesday), two of which I think you’ll find particularly interesting. The Facebook Page The first thing is that I have launched the People Skills Decoded Facebook Page. It’s not an alignment with a fad, it’s something I seriously reflected upon and I decided to create [...]

It has been a flourishing year on People Skills Decoded. I’ve let my mind run wild in 2010 and I’ve structured some of my best insights into over 70 articles published here this year. Now, at the end of the year, it’s a good moment to look back on this body of knowledge and point [...]