Archive | May, 2010

Good People Skills = Building Trust

May 31, 2010

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This is a guest post by my friend Maria Dinu (Galca), who is an Effectiveness Coach. She works full time in HR for a Fortune 100 Company, and coaches in her free time. She blogs about how to better manage your life on LifeToolkit.net. I pride myself with having worked with various types of people [...]

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The Elusive Reason Why Success Is Elusive

May 25, 2010

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You may hear people talk about various reasons why success in various areas is so elusive: lack of a clear goal, lack of the right attitude, lack of consistent action – all solid reasons in my view. Yet, at one point in time, whenever I would hear them, I would get a feeling of that’s-not-all-there-is. [...]

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Night Owl Lifestyle

May 20, 2010

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Are you a ‘night owl’? Do you find it hard to go to sleep early at night and when you get up early in the morning it’s like you’ve been hit by a train? Join the team! Night owls are a minority of the population, but a significant one. It is commonly believed that the [...]

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Empathy vs. Sympathy: The Big Distinction

May 16, 2010

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Here is one distinction I make which I notice helps a lot of people. It makes it easier for them to take the best decisions in communication and in social interactions with others, and it assists them to improve their people skills. This distinction is between two similar sounding concepts. Empathy: the ability to understand, [...]

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Why Less Is More in Personal Development

May 9, 2010

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I was reading earlier today a presentation of a one-day communication skills training, and browsing over the content. This training covers everything from non-verbal communication, to conflict management, to business communication, to presenting with impact. All in just one, single day! There was a point a long time ago when I used to do the [...]

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VIP Lifestyle – Get Your Free Ebook

May 4, 2010

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Ladies and gents, I am thrilled to present… VIP Lifestyle: A People-System for Creating Your Ultimate Lifestyle. This short ebook is a practical guide at the intersection of lifestyle design (one of my biggest passions) and people skills (my area of expertise). I’ve worked like crazy for a couple of weeks, conceptualizing, writing and editing [...]

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